Jeff Ream Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, garfield said: This seems to be acceptable practice in many circles these days. Anonymously, of course, with great tales and words of warning. lets be honest...going public creates backlash towards those people who do come forward. we have seen it here. Edited February 18, 2020 by Jeff Ream 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimF-LowBari Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 (edited) 12 minutes ago, garfield said: This seems to be acceptable practice in many circles these days. Anonymously, of course, with great tales and words of warning. Anonymous does open a can of worms with fake accusations. But it does protect from retribution if you turn in a boss or co-worker. I reported fraud years back and found out later an upper manager was involved. My career would have been over if he ever found out. Someone tell Rand Paul (ducks) Edited February 18, 2020 by JimF-LowBari Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HockeyDad Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 1 hour ago, JimF-LowBari said: My concern is the method of trying to flush this out ends up turning people away who would/could help. for example.... apparently you are one of the abuse enablers who worships the Cadets. Well everyone on dcp is that also. Why do you allow yourself to get dragged into the mud with that poster? We got called a name. So what. Ignore it. There’s a much more important discussion there than reacting to being called a hop supporter / enabler. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garfield Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 7 minutes ago, Jeff Ream said: lets be honest...going publish creates backlash towards those people who do come forward. we have seen it here. I'm always honest. Going public isn't always the antiseptic sunshine it's intended to be. And, when calm heads prevail, finger-pointers without substantive proof become targets. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terri Schehr Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 22 minutes ago, Jeff Ream said: Kilties yeah. not Rice calling Dan on Hop Yep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimF-LowBari Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 (edited) 11 minutes ago, HockeyDad said: Why do you allow yourself to get dragged into the mud with that poster? We got called a name. So what. Ignore it. There’s a much more important discussion there than reacting to being called a hop supporter / enabler. Name calling wasn’t my concern. Have just seen too many people get turned off from doing the right thing by crap like this. IOW doing more harm than good.... Edited February 18, 2020 by JimF-LowBari Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terri Schehr Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 20 minutes ago, Jeff Ream said: lets be honest...going publish creates backlash towards those people who do come forward. we have seen it here. Even when you have absolute truth on your side. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skevinp Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 10 minutes ago, HockeyDad said: Why do you allow yourself to get dragged into the mud with that poster? We got called a name. So what. Ignore it. There’s a much more important discussion there than reacting to being called a hop supporter / enabler. Why don’t you just have that discussion then instead of belittling others based on your own unfamiliarity with the specifics of what they are referring to? By analogy, you can have a meaningful discussion about the dangers of communism without attacking anyone who has a genuine concern about McCarthyism. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skevinp Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 18 minutes ago, JimF-LowBari said: Name calling wasn’t my concern. Have just seen too many people get turned off from helping good groups by crap like this. IOW doing more harm than good.... Yep. There’s a reason we have SWAT teams instead of just strapping a machine gun to a fire hose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimF-LowBari Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, skevinp said: Yep. There’s a reason we have SWAT teams instead of just strapping a machine gun to a fire hose. Picturing the local FD with a machine gun yow... Seriously just shaking my head that telling someone to go to the cops gets you called an enabler to a predator. And we wonder why people don’t try to help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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