I hope this is the right forum for this. so I'm sorry if it's not; this will mostly be a rant.
Well I was hoping to be a part of Teal Sound this year, and the Operations Director and Director were helping me work it all out since I'd be getting into it a month or two late, and I've been talking to my parents about it for a while, and they generally seemed supportive. But I've noticed that my parents are typically supportive of anything when they think I'm not serious about, thinking it will be a fleeting thing. Well unfortunately for them, and for me, I really was very serious about this, so we were having another talk about this whole thing tonight, and they FORBADE me to do drum corps! They said that they didn't know where I'd come up with the money (even though I have about $900 in my bank account, and I was hoping to receive that CorpsVets scholarship, and collect corporate sponsorships, and do any and all fundraisers possible), how I'd get there (even though I'd been working to find other people in the Atlanta area I could carpool with), and then they said there was no way they'd let me miss school for this (I'm a high school senior by the way, and I was planinng to take care of all my missed work beforehand). I've been mentioning Appalachian Sound in Tennesse as a possible alternative, in case this did fall through, and I can fully pay for that myself, and luckily I don't need to miss school for it, and I know it will be awesomely fun, but I'll miss out on the whole touring experience. My parents don't seem to understand that that the closest 3 junior corps to Atlanta are 3, 5, and 7 hours away. So their solution to the distance problem is to just refuse to let me participate. I'm turning 18 in April, I'm practically middle-aged in this sport! Since I'm still living under their roof and getting free 'room and board' and using a car they own, there's not much I can do, so I'm going to have to try this all again next summer, when I'll be in college so I can slip away on Fridays to do this and can hopefully get rides much easier.
They reacted like I imagine they'd react if I told them I was an sex crime fellon with an illegitamite crack baby!
Has anyone else had their parents absolutely crush this for them like that??