We often intended the candy to go TO someone...no AT anyone. However, we're talking about a bunch of musicians here, not major league baseball players. There are going to be some strays...or mostly strays...whichever. Anytime anyone was angry about it, we made sure to smooth things over afterward. We always made attempts at correcting our mistakes...both athletic and moral in nature.
I was in the Blue Stars before the Cavaliers, and I had lots of fun in both organizations. I'll also mention that their approaches to retreat activities are pretty polar opposite...or were when I was in both groups.
It's marching band...have fun while you do it.
-Ben
Blue Stars - 99
Cavaliers - 01,02,04