Great post!
A short little story for everyone: For my family and friends, I was the driving force behind going to drum corps shows. I'd set up the trips, buy the tickets (they'd pay me back, I'm not wealthy, rich in family and friends, but by no means wealthy), distribute the tickets, etc. A couple of years ago, I couldn't tolerate the changes, read innovation and my perceived lack of respect for the past, anymore, so I decided not to go to any more shows. My friends and family picked up the baton (pun intended) and went without me, which I thought was great. But last year, no one went because they were bored at the previous year's events - I don't know any of the shows from 2005, so I'm not making any judgment calls or anything - I'm simply taking people I've known and loved for years at their word. So, that being said, there are now more than 10 people from just my family and circle of immediate friends that are no longer going to ANY shows at all - and I don't know if this is good or bad (maybe they weren't all that die-hard of fans to begin with, and they were just humoring me), it's simply a fact. And sadly, none of them are going to any shows this year either.
On a personal note, I went through a long mourning period, but I think I'm finally over it and over drum corps. And as has been said on this board in the very recent past - try not to take yourselves too seriously. Enjoy life and everything you do.
And please, before anyone flames me and says that I was not a true fan either, here's my drum corps pedigree: Junior corps - marched and taught; Senior corps - marched, taught, on board of directors. Needless to say, I spent many years of my life in and around drum corps, so yes, I was a true fan.
The Chief