I understand all of the various opinions posted here on thistopic. I truly understand both sides of this issue.
After my sister died, a trophy was named in her honor. Sixmonths later, I won the gold medal and the trophy. Interestingly enough, it wasfor ice dancing….and I was 10 years old.
Fast forward 10 years, and now I am one of the performers inSpirit that fateful night. I think our youngest member was 15 or so….all theway to 21. For many, this was their first experience with death outside ofimmediate family, or their first experience at all.
I can’t speak for anyone other than myself (having cookedhamburgers with Maggie and Jim at their home prior to tour) I can say that thecompetitive aspect was not a part of me that day and as far as I can tell noone else’s either. We must keep in mind that one of our members was involved inthe accident as well as other staff who were severely injured.
That performance was between the member of the corps, JimOtt and the other members of the Spirit family who were injured that day.
In other competitive instances, often the athletes are olderand often more experienced with the grief process than perhaps we were thatnight.
I will always be proud of my performance that night, thereasons for the presentation as such, and most importantly, sharing my soulwith my corps family, the other corps assembled, and the wonderful audience in attendancethat evening.
To everyone here my highest regards and respect,
Bob Clark
Spirit of Atlanta 79-81