DSpruce Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 (edited) Deleting to try to depersonalize and in re to claim that this was a double binding statement I actually don’t necessarily concede that it was a double binding statement I just don’t mind redacting. I’m as smart as anybody else and not following that bit. Happy to be educated. Note I am not an institution I am a private person who was misled by the entity citing double bind. Edited August 5, 2023 by DSpruce Edited to depersonalize per feedback on policy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSpruce Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 At least in the room of course I would have no info on dms Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueStainGlass Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 Since this has turned into a back and forth maybe you guys should go to DMs. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSpruce Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 I’d love for this to die down so I can go away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSpruce Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 (edited) I’m simply team support from within not team overthrow. No question that mistakes were made and improvements needed and better comms are needed Edited August 4, 2023 by DSpruce Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scheherazadesghost Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 We're stuck in a double bind here. This is a form of retaliation, mentioned in a previous comment of mine. More here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_bind This could have been a private communication from the beginning. The board and alumni and the alumni directory have my email address. I've attempted private communication on half a dozen occasions. It's not up to the institution or its affiliates to determine for the abused whether they were being hostile or not. By this alum's own admission, they don't have all the info. But here they are, trying to deflect legitimate concerns and deflect blame. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSpruce Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 (edited) I shared my perception of an event in which it was stated that alum were behaving with hostility towards others at that event. That’s a claim. Is that trying to deflect legitimate concerns and deflect blame? Ok happy to not do that again. Edited August 4, 2023 by DSpruce Edited to align with that the respective comment was deleted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keystone3ply Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 53 minutes ago, BlueStainGlass said: Since this has turned into a back and forth maybe you guys should go to DMs. 😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scheherazadesghost Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 22 minutes ago, DSpruce said: I shared my perception of an event in which you claim that you were treated with hostility. Is that trying to deflect legitimate concerns and deflect blame? Ok I can’t delete it now because it won’t make sense but happy to not do that again. Many alum are blind to the pattern and legacy of abuse. And then continue to blame the victims, double bind them, and then wonder why more won't step forward so improvements can be sustainably be integrated. You're welcome to your opinion but don't be surprised by pushback supported by legitimate resources and as much evidence as I can present without breaking the confidentiality of other reporters. Your entire string of comments here is in violation of DCP policy. I haven't pushed to silence or block you because I actually find it refreshing that one of you left the closed, private Fb page to express what you think publicly. Although I have no doubt what I'm saying has the potential to be discussed openly therein without my capacity to stand up for myself. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueStainGlass Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 And here comes the gas for the fire https://www.scvanguard.org/vmapa-organization-update-august-4-2023/?fbclid=IwAR0rr1sQvYlnEbzZtvqmq1EPxpLFRQae1azGSgEvELWPdeoTn-P5K0OCFiE 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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